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I'm switching to Wordpress for a better template and more professional direction. No, I don't aim to make blogging a career, or even a dime-generating tool, but this switch is an epiphany of change for myself. Recently, I've wanted to disregard the casual, abrupt sentiments, and focus on other issues that are just as important, but more practical. I want to read more, travel more, write more about my experiences and feelings in a more exploratory and contemplative way (in other words: I'll still be cheesy). I don't just want to see myself; I want to understand myself.
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Sunday, November 30, 2014
The fleeting Hanoi
My grandfather passed away on Saturday at 86. He went peacefully, having led a fulfilling life with a professional legacy and a dedicated family by his side until the end.
I lost both my grandparents on my mother's side a few years ago. I was saddened, of course, but I took their deceases easier than I thought. Maybe it was the circle of life (they were 76 and 85, which were quite long life-spans), maybe I was away. This time, I got to spend more time with my grandpa, to see him and feel him and say my farewell for the last time.
It feels too real.
I lost both my grandparents on my mother's side a few years ago. I was saddened, of course, but I took their deceases easier than I thought. Maybe it was the circle of life (they were 76 and 85, which were quite long life-spans), maybe I was away. This time, I got to spend more time with my grandpa, to see him and feel him and say my farewell for the last time.
It feels too real.
Thursday, November 27, 2014
hanoi ephemera (2)
I get emotionally attached easily. You spend a day with me, listen to my ramblings and share a bit of yours. I'll think of you for the next few months.
On my way from the hospital to my grandparents' today, I drove along this motorbike. Two guys, definitely younger than me (being 25+, I've started seeing all guys as younger than me). We drove along, all the way from Hang Bai / Hai Ba Trung all the way to Kim Ma.
Yes, I got attached. Not Korean-drama-coincidental-love attached. Road attachment. Like, a "Hey we were on the way. Geographically. But how about mentally" attachment.
While we were stuck in the traffic on Son Tay, I heard them sing to a "Em đi xa quá... em đi xa anh quá..."
Made our departure much much easier.
On my way from the hospital to my grandparents' today, I drove along this motorbike. Two guys, definitely younger than me (being 25+, I've started seeing all guys as younger than me). We drove along, all the way from Hang Bai / Hai Ba Trung all the way to Kim Ma.
Yes, I got attached. Not Korean-drama-coincidental-love attached. Road attachment. Like, a "Hey we were on the way. Geographically. But how about mentally" attachment.
While we were stuck in the traffic on Son Tay, I heard them sing to a "Em đi xa quá... em đi xa anh quá..."
Made our departure much much easier.
Friday, October 3, 2014
hanoi ephemera (1)
That feeling when you speed up on the semi-empty street, singing yourself to "What's Up" and "Susie Q".
Hanoi, thank you for this ephemera. I know it won't last, but the sentiments probably will, at least for a while.
Monday, July 14, 2014
Broken scenery, packed minds, relinquished memories.
There are always that many steps in packing. First comes that dreadful noise of the cardboards scratching against one another, which sounds like an out-of-tune violin played with a stroke. Then I look around for bigger, sturdier possessions to fill that newly empty space, believing I can always tuck the tiny things amidst the layers of clothes and books later.
I must be unlucky, because I have too many of these little unnamed things to bury all away. A few of those, which I thought were lost or discarded along the past 8 years, somehow find a way back right in front of my face. The high-school yearbook covered by flakes of glitter, the oversized Metallica t-shirt, the set of woolen scarf gifted to me on a summer's night, a Conn memorabilia here and there, an overdue postcard. Despite the wrong assumption, I remember them well - all of the whos, whens, wheres were as transparent as a bus window. Blurred and dusted, but it shows me just what I need to see - the movements, the sounds, the affairs that passed by and lingered within it.
Memories are emotionally constructed. "What you end up remembering isn't always the same as what you have witnessed." (Barnes, 2011). People like to venture into their own twists and turns on that trip down memory lane. That inexpensive scarf suddenly represented embrace and warmth, to be felt transatlantic. The glance that happened for two seconds suddenly became a mamihlapinatapai that lasted a decade. Likewise, traces of devastation and heartbreaks are repressed the same way we kicked trash under the fridge hoping it will just "evaporate". Many times we force ourselves to pretend it's gone. Some others, we genuinely forget about its existence. But the moment we decide to move on we end up finding it in our baggage. And no matter how much we vacuum or compress that baggage, we would never escape its burden.
And of course, there are things I believe are always there, just because. The finger-sized ekeka that I used to carry everywhere not for good luck, but for the comfort that somebody came to Peru and thought of me. The mixed tapes that sing songs about love, youth and changes. All of the pictures from summer camps. Every greeting card whose way to get to me is a story itself. Now I kept them in the bottom of a plastic box, but at some point in life, each and every of them has managed to keep me steady, even if just for a minute or two. The past looks lighter, the future easier when simple pleasures and sentiments stay the same.
I remember packing a few years ago and missing one of these "simple pleasures." An mp3 CD with the full discography of Led Zeppelin, Pink Floyd and The Doors. I couldn't recall who made it for me, but I remember when. It was the same time disc trays were obviated from laptops and PCs. Needless to say, it ended up a memento for "that time when I was a wild, passion, young, guitarist-wannabe girl." I dug through every corner and niche of the room for the next few days (even Heathcliff couldn't do a better job with Cathy's grave), but only ended up with more souvenirs to lump the boxes. It didn't take me any longer to call of the search, but I'm still not convinced that CD, that apocalypically-flat donut of plastic, is not somewhere around the house. It might be bookmarking an unopened book or stuck in the inside pocket of an ugly coat, and if I look one step further, it might just as well be within my reach again.
I never got to the final step of packing, because let's be honest, who knows not about packing. After all, the hardest part is not dragging things out one box and placing them in another, but lingering and pondering over each and every souvenir, which is like a life bookmark. All of a sudden, it brings back memories of that time period, and suddenly you remember how your life used to be.
Don't we all have some kind of token that we hold on to, never to be exhibited, only kept for occasional nostalgia? And aren't we all hauling some kind of baggage in our lives? In retrospect, how much have they held us back from moving faster, or further, or onto other directions, or from dancing as if our hands are falling off, or from swirling under the rain? I know this sounds paradoxical, but sometimes, the strongest thing we can do is to let some memories and their corporeal illustration go so we can be freer and lighter. Who knows, your baggage might not be as spacious and your heart as empty as you believed them to be.
So, in the middle of an empty room, I can hear my breath echo against the white walls like farewell whispers. A part of my past is in its place, ready to be present in my future.
I must be unlucky, because I have too many of these little unnamed things to bury all away. A few of those, which I thought were lost or discarded along the past 8 years, somehow find a way back right in front of my face. The high-school yearbook covered by flakes of glitter, the oversized Metallica t-shirt, the set of woolen scarf gifted to me on a summer's night, a Conn memorabilia here and there, an overdue postcard. Despite the wrong assumption, I remember them well - all of the whos, whens, wheres were as transparent as a bus window. Blurred and dusted, but it shows me just what I need to see - the movements, the sounds, the affairs that passed by and lingered within it.
Memories are emotionally constructed. "What you end up remembering isn't always the same as what you have witnessed." (Barnes, 2011). People like to venture into their own twists and turns on that trip down memory lane. That inexpensive scarf suddenly represented embrace and warmth, to be felt transatlantic. The glance that happened for two seconds suddenly became a mamihlapinatapai that lasted a decade. Likewise, traces of devastation and heartbreaks are repressed the same way we kicked trash under the fridge hoping it will just "evaporate". Many times we force ourselves to pretend it's gone. Some others, we genuinely forget about its existence. But the moment we decide to move on we end up finding it in our baggage. And no matter how much we vacuum or compress that baggage, we would never escape its burden.
And of course, there are things I believe are always there, just because. The finger-sized ekeka that I used to carry everywhere not for good luck, but for the comfort that somebody came to Peru and thought of me. The mixed tapes that sing songs about love, youth and changes. All of the pictures from summer camps. Every greeting card whose way to get to me is a story itself. Now I kept them in the bottom of a plastic box, but at some point in life, each and every of them has managed to keep me steady, even if just for a minute or two. The past looks lighter, the future easier when simple pleasures and sentiments stay the same.
I remember packing a few years ago and missing one of these "simple pleasures." An mp3 CD with the full discography of Led Zeppelin, Pink Floyd and The Doors. I couldn't recall who made it for me, but I remember when. It was the same time disc trays were obviated from laptops and PCs. Needless to say, it ended up a memento for "that time when I was a wild, passion, young, guitarist-wannabe girl." I dug through every corner and niche of the room for the next few days (even Heathcliff couldn't do a better job with Cathy's grave), but only ended up with more souvenirs to lump the boxes. It didn't take me any longer to call of the search, but I'm still not convinced that CD, that apocalypically-flat donut of plastic, is not somewhere around the house. It might be bookmarking an unopened book or stuck in the inside pocket of an ugly coat, and if I look one step further, it might just as well be within my reach again.
I never got to the final step of packing, because let's be honest, who knows not about packing. After all, the hardest part is not dragging things out one box and placing them in another, but lingering and pondering over each and every souvenir, which is like a life bookmark. All of a sudden, it brings back memories of that time period, and suddenly you remember how your life used to be.
Don't we all have some kind of token that we hold on to, never to be exhibited, only kept for occasional nostalgia? And aren't we all hauling some kind of baggage in our lives? In retrospect, how much have they held us back from moving faster, or further, or onto other directions, or from dancing as if our hands are falling off, or from swirling under the rain? I know this sounds paradoxical, but sometimes, the strongest thing we can do is to let some memories and their corporeal illustration go so we can be freer and lighter. Who knows, your baggage might not be as spacious and your heart as empty as you believed them to be.
So, in the middle of an empty room, I can hear my breath echo against the white walls like farewell whispers. A part of my past is in its place, ready to be present in my future.
Monday, January 6, 2014
A week late... for 2014 resolutions
Put it here so I can be publicly held accountable for my actions. Sorted by urgency and desirability level.
Professional
Development
Excel my Advanced Excel skills
Complete the ArcGIS courses
Learn basic Python
Academics
Apply for PhD programs
Finish the Personal Finance & Jazz Appreciation online
courses
Personal Objectives
Begin my writing project
Follow my 2014 reading track
Pick up where I left off with music
Travel to Hawaii and/or an authentic American city
Exercise daily with P90, Zumba & P90X
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